What do you think the current culture of our world says makes a real man? What are the characteristics that stand out?
Where in your life have you not surrendered to what God says is best?
What does a life surrendered to God look like according to Proverbs 3:5-8? What does it mean to "fear God" in this context?
Look at your life and ask God to help you see where you've held back from surrendering to Him. Find the person you most trust and ask them to help you identify and then surrender this area to God.